I’m a futuristic loner so yeah, I already planned my future (here’s my plan), and I’m sure everything will turn awesome. I mean, awesome alone. Lol. But seriously, I really really want to be independent and free someday. So I’m here, going to give you some tips on how to survive your life without being dependent on other people.
Learn how to organize everything alone.
- You should know how to fix everything with your own decision. In all aspects. Like, your house.. You should know how to fix your own house without any suggestions from people like, ‘put it there’, ‘put it here’. Schedules or Time Management. You should fix your own schedule, your own time, your own lifetime.
Learn how to appreciate your own ‘things’.
- Learn how to appreciate your works, example.. The food that you cooked, yourself, everything. Appreciate every little things that you do. If you know how to appreciate your own work, then you don’t need other people to appreciate your work just to prove you that you can do it. In that way, you yourself can say that you can manage yourself.
Learn how to be happy alone.
- I don’t say that you should laugh alone, that’s a very different thing. Hahaha. But, you should be happy even if you’re alone. So that, you can still be happy even if you’re all by yourself. And even MORE HAPPY if you’re with somebody else. Just remember that when you step a bit out of your door, everybody’s waiting for you.
Last but not the least, this tip.. I got this from Miss Kisty.. You should…
Be strong and be courageous about it.
- Be strong. Have a lot of courage with you all the time and be brave enough to face everything all by yourself. Problems, situations.
Maybe if you got to learn those things, we can say that you’re really strong to handle yourself without the help of others.
Being alone isn’t selfishness. Also, isn’t about pushing others away. But being alone, or being INDEPENDENT is a way of telling others that YOU CAN MANAGE YOUR OWN LIFE.
Who say’s being independent is boring? Being independent is fun. You’re free! As in always.
You? Do you want to be independent in the near future like me? :>